what to do about my girl?

[MeanGreen94Z]

i havent even talked to her i only have a class with her ...i just dont know how to do anything....but i wrote this on my Mysoace hoping she would read it...
I want to tell her in words how I feel , but she is so beautiful to me that every time I get the chance to tell her how pretty she is I choke. If only once she would look at me the way I see her. The way I see her is mysterious even to me but I know shes there and she knows im here. each day to look across the room to want something I know nothing about pains me so much because this feeling I have never had, this feeling that makes me feel stupid because I have never wanted something I know nothing about. She puts a pit in my heart that I have never heard of or experienced but yet I still long for her presence. Everyone else asks me what do you see in her she isnt even that pretty shes quiet and lonely looking, like shes waiting for her perfect someone to come along and whip her off her feet, but I still sit in the corner and say nothing and know if I keep this up we may both lose something we will be looking for the rest of our lives. How can I go about her? What do I say to her? I want to run up to her and say hey babe lets get out of here and go somewhere we can be each others for a while when I see her I forget about that part of me that loves my car and I can only be confused about her .how can I love someone that I do not even know? God works in odd ways and I wait for that day when we run into one another and realize what has been missing in our lives, and sit back to find eternal love like the love once felt for another girl that left me in a world of heartache and another that I left in a world of pain. I know the future holds something more for the two people that havent met and I will keep waiting for that special moment in my life when two souls come together to make a couple an create the once known happiness.
..i know sadness but its my feelings

[Reklaw Z28]

WOW....bro..I know how you feel but if you don't your courage up it'll git away.. just tell her, I know I don't know you that well but do you mind if we talk fer a second.. I promise I won't waste your time.. there's something that's been on my mind lately.. that's all brother.. no worries.. it's better to admire them up close than far away you know? Plus when school ends you'll kick yoursellf in the arse bro HOP TO IT!! my .02 cents hommie Gl with that..take a chance bro it can't hurt..P.S hommie, screw what your friends think it's lame but "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" ... but hommie are you sure you're not just infactuated with her because of that picture in your head that you hold of her? You have to know that the picture in your head isn't real bro.. it takes a lot of time to really get to know someone..and you can't tell how a person is by looking afar..

[Dave5700]

Reminds me of a song

"Never think she's perfect until you talk to her first, never fall in love until you go through her purse" Obviously a joke, but some truth.

My advice on girls, and the easiest way to score a date:
Day 1: Say Hello, get her name
Day 2: If in college, ask her major
Day 3: Talk about the weather
Day 4: Talk about what she has in her hand (iPod, coffee, drink, pen/pencil whatever)
Day 5: See if she wants to go get some coffee sometime-- get the phone number
Day 6: Call her, and ask her out for coffee that night -- this step is crucial.
--Because you ask her out on the same day you call her three things can happen
---1. She will say yes
---2. She will say she wants to, but has obligations
---3. She will say she has obligations
---4. She will say no

That strategy has never failed me once, but I'm not single anymore, hope that helps ya.

[Reklaw Z28]

Reminds me of a song

"Never think she's perfect until you talk to her first, never fall in love until you go through her purse" Obviously a joke, but some truth.

My advice on girls, and the easiest way to score a date:
Day 1: Say Hello, get her name
Day 2: If in college, ask her major
Day 3: Talk about the weather
Day 4: Talk about what she has in her hand (iPod, coffee, drink, pen/pencil whatever)
Day 5: See if she wants to go get some coffee sometime-- get the phone number
Day 6: Call her, and ask her out for coffee that night -- this step is crucial.
--Because you ask her out on the same day you call her three things can happen
---1. She will say yes
---2. She will say she wants to, but has obligations
---3. She will say she has obligations
---4. She will say no

That strategy has never failed me once, but I'm not single anymore, hope that helps ya.


yea but make sure if you tell her you'll call her tonight you mean it..otherwise there's nothing worse than a woman scorned....

[Dave5700]

Very true, Reklaw, do not play the "wait game" with a woman. Call her and ask her out for coffee.

Dinner, and movies is way too much pressure. Bowling is always good, so is pool.

[MeanGreen94Z]

hey hey ive seen her once at the pool hall when me and on of my friends(another girl) were there...i kinda think she thinks im datin omeone and will not talk 2 me cause she thinks i will break her heart if she likes me ....but me and that friend are just that...FRIENDS...i also took her to prom and thats whay i think she thinks im taken but searching

[Hardtop94]

she should just see the z and its a done deal!! :)

def dont waste time waiting it never works, put your self on the map but do it smooth and simple. and when you get older you will see why we say spend money on the car not women!! LOL i'm only 26 not that old!!! good luck

[Reklaw Z28]

hey hey ive seen her once at the pool hall when me and on of my friends(another girl) were there...i kinda think she thinks im datin omeone and will not talk 2 me cause she thinks i will break her heart if she likes me ....but me and that friend are just that...FRIENDS...i also took her to prom and thats whay i think she thinks im taken but searching

uh yea? if she SAW you with ANOTHER girl...she'd be a little skeptical of those "adoring" looks you give her ..plus you took your friend to the prom..and she knew about it.. I think that if you want HER then you'd better explain better or she'll just think you're a flake. She'll still misunderstand but at least you got it in the air now..plus anyway first thing in her head is you're a PLAYER.. oh well something we have to deal with if we have friends that are girls... talk to that woman of yours right and she's yours hommie(not to mention show her your car that ought to do it :chuckles:

[guitarisawesome]

Ok, well coming from somone who was in a similar situation i think i can help you. I liked this one girl forever. She liked me and i never knew it. I started to talk to her just as freinds, we'd joke around in class and just have fun. Soon we were talking all the time in class and we had fun together(after school a little in the parking lot or whatever). Finally i grew some balls and asked her on a date during the summer after graduation. That date wasn't the most intense thing ever, in fact, i didn't even kiss her or anything. I hugged her goodnight and that was it. But i persisted because she was diffrent from the rest of the girls. I'm proud to say that i tried and now i'm with her still. We're coming up on our 11 month anniversery. I know we're just going out. But this girl means the world to me and i have a feeling this will be the girl i spend the rest of my days with. That makes me happier than anything.

My advice? Use some confidence and be yourself to this girl. You won't get this girl if you never try. Fight the butterflies. If you mumble when you speak, or trip up, she'll think its cute or laugh and it'll take the edge off. Good luck!

[MeanGreen94Z]

ok just to update ...im not the player ...she is my friend saw her at the lake smoking like a train (turn off for me) ...and then remembered who she was , she went to drivers ed with my friend i took to prom and she ust informed me about how she was bragging about how many guys she had been with ....BLAAA!!! just sickening...so i offically give up that one ...so whats up now is i was just in the right place to ask my ex of 2 years back so we could finish what we had ...she told me she was going to put put well i called her like 3 times and she never answered so i finally said scwer riding around i wanna be with the girl i love and hang wiht her ...i get there and NOTHING ...a couple friends of mine are there and say the hadnt seen her the whole night ....i waited around until 12 finally she called and explained to me what happened. she went with a friend an two guys 4 wheeling. oh the hurt...right when i get ready to move in the direction she has been sking me to she finds someone else so she has persisted to treat me the way i treated her when i broke up with her for my friend casey. if only i could take it all back all the fights and EVERYTHING i would give my car just to be with her again and thats no joke (everyon knows i love that car more that life) i would give my life just to make her happy and for the two of us to be together .anyways i never cry about ANYTHING ...so when she called tonight an said she thinks she has feelings for this guy i got in the car to drive and on the radio came the song by Kenny Rogers , "I cant un love you" i just burst into tears..you guys i love her so much i just cant understand why i hurt her the way i did i want the pain to go away but it just gets worse. i wanna cry all night long and get in the car and headfirst a tree at 140...what do i do i wan her with all my heart and dreams. i wanna marry this girl

[MeanGreen94Z]

just read my myspace stuff ...i kno i contra**************** my self but i dont kno if im mad or upset www.myspace.com/1bad94z28

[Reklaw Z28]

Jeez christ I spent my time helping you...I'm in the same situation right now cept that my girlfriend of 3 years doesn't know if she wants to be with me anymore...and she thinks she has feelings for someone else...my opinion if you don't wanna get hurt..DON'T TRY...:( I maybe a little bitter but that's the truth...it hurts way too much...

[MeanGreen94Z]

yea..she has made me a little bitter..but oh well...life goes on im gonna put her to the test this weekend and o out with another girl ...then well see if things are as the really seem and she doesnt wanna be with me anymore so wish me the best...i really want her back

[popo8]

yea but make sure if you tell her you'll call her tonight you mean it..otherwise there's nothing worse than a woman scorned....


I disagree..... well what I mean is.... always keep your word... but dont put yourself in the position to break your word... rather than saying you will call her tonight... tell her... youll give her a call. Let her wonder when it will happen.... TIME MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER. (i love cliche' annalogies) Anyways.. we are jumping the gun here... Just do it... if she says NO... you no longer have to worry about what she thinks, and you can move on... or become a stalker.... BUT... if she says yes.... all possibilities are endless...

[popo8]

ok just to update ...im not the player ...she is my friend saw her at the lake smoking like a train (turn off for me) ...and then remembered who she was , she went to drivers ed with my friend i took to prom and she ust informed me about how she was bragging about how many guys she had been with ....BLAAA!!! just sickening...so i offically give up that one ...so whats up now is i was just in the right place to ask my ex of 2 years back so we could finish what we had ...she told me she was going to put put well i called her like 3 times and she never answered so i finally said scwer riding around i wanna be with the girl i love and hang wiht her ...i get there and NOTHING ...a couple friends of mine are there and say the hadnt seen her the whole night ....i waited around until 12 finally she called and explained to me what happened. she went with a friend an two guys 4 wheeling. oh the hurt...right when i get ready to move in the direction she has been sking me to she finds someone else so she has persisted to treat me the way i treated her when i broke up with her for my friend casey. if only i could take it all back all the fights and EVERYTHING i would give my car just to be with her again and thats no joke (everyon knows i love that car more that life) i would give my life just to make her happy and for the two of us to be together .anyways i never cry about ANYTHING ...so when she called tonight an said she thinks she has feelings for this guy i got in the car to drive and on the radio came the song by Kenny Rogers , "I cant un love you" i just burst into tears..you guys i love her so much i just cant understand why i hurt her the way i did i want the pain to go away but it just gets worse. i wanna cry all night long and get in the car and headfirst a tree at 140...what do i do i wan her with all my heart and dreams. i wanna marry this girl

wowo... ur all over the board.. with girls... Looks to me like you are just looking for Someone... anyone, and when the unkown scares you, you return directly to your safety area, and that is your ex... get a sport... get a hobbie.. a hooker.. and stop trying to force a relationship somewhere... just let it happen.... PS-Im a cop, and if someone made a comment like that to me (about the tree at 140) I would have them forcibly commited for a minimum of 72hrs... becarefull wahat you say and mean...

[popo8]

yea..she has made me a little bitter..but oh well...life goes on im gonna put her to the test this weekend and o out with another girl ...then well see if things are as the really seem and she doesnt wanna be with me anymore so wish me the best...i really want her back


**************** it Man... its not about putting the other one to the "jealousy" test... IT IS GOING TO BACKFIRE... trust me... been where you are a million times... just live your life. Go out with this other girl because you want to get to know this other girl... not because you want to put the other one "to the test"... GUARANTEE... you do that, and all youll be left with is 2 pissed off girls...